Mistress Mary

Make it a rule of life never to regret and never to look back. Regret is an appalling waste of energy; you can’t build on it; it’s only good for wallowing in.  Katherine Mansfield – October 14, 1888-January 9, 1923,



Goddess incarnate

Queen of all slaves

Pig of all pigs

Enveloped in love by my Loyal

I give you your true self

Yield to me

So we may live in the devine

-Mistress Mary 2017


About your Mistress:

I Am a pre-op transsexual Mistress/Disciplinarian Dominatrix (Pro-Domme) age 46. I specialize in Dominant / Submissive role play relationships with mature men and Women. I am a human Pig and Slave owner. I have special playhouses for sub servants/pigs, animals and loyal slaves who wish to serve and worship in a long term relationship.  I own my own BDSM facilities including Slave Dungeons, Pig Pens , Abandoned Farms, Theme/Play Rooms in San Diego, CA, San Jose CA and San Francisco CA. Daily and monthly training sessions are by appointment only and I encourage long term relationships (LTR) .




I am to be addressed as Mistress. If you are to court me as your mistress then I have rules that I expect my servant’s, pigs and slaves to obey. You are to introduce yourself to me with respect. If I grant you an interview you are to be punctual and arrive bearing your gift of love and commitment to your Goddess and in return for your loyalty, worship and devotion, Mistress will give you full and undivided attention.


I punish for disobedience and I reward for my pleasure.  I am happy to accommodate your fetishes, desires and needs after our mutual agreement, however it is at my pleasure that you will learn to love and worship me to my expectations.




My role as your mistress is to offer you a life changing experience that is grounded in love, respect and judgment free.  Whether you are discovering your submissive desires for the first time or maybe  you bring experience to our relashionship, I am here to allow you to free yourself from your daily life and bring out your deepest and uninhibited submissive desires in a clean, safe and private environment. I am your confidante. I am your Mistress of pain, pleasure and transformation. Only I allow you to let go of your inhibitions and fears so you give yourself to me fully. I will deconstruct you and I will re-construct you and shape you into an obedient, devotional slave/pet /pig or servant that is worthy of the best Mistress. I am a unique woman with a passion for domination through discipline, transformation through artistry and worship through pleasure.

-Mistress Mary


My services include

Humiliation / Domination

Financial Domination

Tease and Denial

Forced Feminization

Bondage / Ropes / Suspension /Swings



Paddling / Whipping / Caning

Sensory Touch

Confinement Cage Play

Human Puppy Training

Nasty Pig Training

Verbal Humiliation

Corporal Punishment / School Detention

Slut Training


Scent Play

Role Play

Blindfold Play

C and S Worship

Dildos (hand held and strap on)


Hairbrush Spanking

Human Furniture Play


O control and denial

Over the knee spankings

Used panty play

Barbie Doll play

Erotic photography

Phone Erotica/ Vibration Play


Slave Training

Body Worship

Skype Play

Sensual Services


Dinner Dates

Travel Companion