Faced with the pain of freedom, man begs for his shackles. – Gerry Spence
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“The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything.” -Friedrich Nietzsche
“There are two types of pains. One that hurts you and the other that changes you.” –Anonymous
Dominance and submission ( D/s ) is a practice in which a submissive person voluntarily gives up his or her control to a dominant for the purpose of mutual enjoyment. Some individuals use D/s only as a sexual role-play, while others may live out a D/s relationship dynamic 24/7.
D/s is first and foremost a psychological structure, however it can also involve physical acts. BDSM can be combined with other aspects of kink and fetish, or not. Mistress Mary is a D/s discipline specialist and integrates obedience/Discipline and worship training into most of her sessions.
Ultimately she seeks a profound and life-changing style of power exchange that creates positive transformation in both Mistress and submissive. The ultimate goal of Dominant is not to punish, but to fulfill the submissives deep desire to serve and please their dominant. Which in turn creates a positive physical and spiritual connection that bonds them together on a deeper plane of reality and ultimately helps make the submissive a better human being.
“It’s an essential part of training to provoke strong emotions. But as you know, one mark of a good slave is the ability to let the anger go and continue working, continue serving, continue offering respect and deference. Now, if the anger and shame and hurt can then change to love or affection or lust — well, that’s our mark as a sadomasochist, isn’t it?” – From the Reunion by Laura Antoniou.
“There are thorns everywhere, but along the path of vice, roses bloom above them.” – Marquis DeSade